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2023 Reflection
Staying true to the blog title, here I am the last two days of this year, reflecting. To be honest, I wasn’t sure if I even wanted to write this. I figured I could have a fresh start in the new year. But then, I began to go through my pictures of this year and I realized A LOT happened and I wanted to talk about it. This year was purposeful, it was intentional. I had goals in mind that I set out to accomplish and although I didn’t do everything I wanted to, I can pat myself on the back for what I did do. My therapist told me…
Healing Sold Separately
I decided to finally go back to therapy and my way of handling life is being challenged. This has been one of the most uncomfortable things I’ve experienced in the sense of coming to terms with childhood traumas, seeing and…
The Sound of Your Song
Guitars have always been my favorite instrument. Really top tier if you ask me. Even though it’s not essential for a band, it definitely elevates the musical experience. You know the instrument I hate? Saxophones! Can’t stand them. If I…
He Knows My Name
We all have a desire to be seen, heard or acknowledged. It’s part of the human experience. As stated in previous posts, connection and fellowship are all things that God put in us to function, so they’re not bad. It…
The Dating Game
Your girl was dating! That’s it. That’s the post. I say was because ion’t wanna do it no more. Dating in your 30s is so ghetto. There are some really interesting people out there, although every experience wasn’t bad. I…
Weak Signal
Connection– a relationship in which a person, thing, or idea is linked or associated with something else. How can we have relationship with no connection? Shout out to my good friend Deondra for calling me out asking me a question…
Fear Factor
The month of June has been a big NOPE for me. The way the cicadas a.k.a satan’s imps were out here wreaking havoc and causing chaos, I just couldn’t be bothered. I’d rather boil my braids and eat them one…
He Loves Me. He Loves Me Not.
Maybe it’s COVID. Maybe it was quarantine. Or maybe it’s the weather warming up. Either way, I have been made aware of many things, but nothing more than the fact that I am single as a dollar bill. I have…
Issa Celebrate!
*peeks head around the corner* Hey y’all. I’m back. Today marks ONE WHOLE YEAR of I’m Late to the Party! And boy have I been late. I’ve written, lost motivation, written, then lost motivation again. Just this ugly cycle. To…
Can We Talk?
I used to think I was a good communicator until recently. I’m just a good listener. When something happens with a friend or family member, I want them to talk about it with me. Let’s get it out in the…
Girl, We Can See You.
Hey y’all (read this in a “my bad I’ve been gone too long” tone). I’ve been writing here and there, just not actually here. I had to read one of my old blog posts, where I dragged myself to remember…
